The SW30: Day 5 ~ The Biggest Misconception You Think People Have About Single Life

I really am not sure where to start on this one. . .

I guess we can go back to something that I said in yesterday's post. A lot of people feel like single people don't have a fulfilling life or that it lacks purpose. I know I'm not making this up :-/. I've seen enough tweets, statuses and comments to know that this is the case.

I know for a fact that there are women who will stay in pointless relationships (situations where they're being disrespected, etc.) just because they "don't want to be alone." I don't know what it is that causes them to be unaware of their worth. Or maybe they know what they deserve and are simply disregarding it. Either way, they are not being fair to themselves by remaining in a detrimental situation. Healthy relationships should inspire you and help you to grow- not make you always feel drained.

I think people should realize that singles can have (healthy, clean) fun without a significant other. They can hang out with friends/family or just go to events alone.

Like I said yesterday. . . this life is what you make it. If you're always complaining about things- having a boyfriend won't make it any more enjoyable. If you choose to appreciate even the little things in life, you can be happy regardless of your relationship status.

Don't give in to the hype! IF you already are, continue but if you're not-> choose to live a full life today!

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