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My Lessons (Living, Learning, and Loving)

I debated about posting these poems, but I always say that every day brings wisdom.  In the last couple years (even within the last few months), I feel like I've grown and learned A LOT!  And I know that it's sometimes helpful for people talk about what they've been through- so they can encourage someone else. So, I hope someone is encouraged by this.
(Part 1)  Shame on Me 
So maybe it's that I give people too much credit.
Or maybe he really made me believe that things were different.
He had me thinking that he was really into me- that he cared.

I could understand that he and I were on two different pages, but he could have said something [sooner]. . . rather than having me sit and have to put two-and-two together.
I should have been more careful and stayed focused.
"Fool me once, shame on you."
But since I've been fooled a few times, I feel ashamed.
I just don't know what to say.
When will it sink in?
That just because a guy can talk a good game, it doesn't mean that he's really into you.
And even though you two may 'talk,' that doesn't mean that you truly know each other.
You need to just sit back and live life.
If love's coming, it will arrive in it's own time.

(Part 2) No More Shame
Lord, I'm so grateful that I'm learning- every new day brings wisdom. . . if you have a willing heart and mind.
Earlier, I felt stupid and ashamed because I felt taken for granted numerous times.
I wondered, "What's wrong with me?"
"Why/ how did I allow this to happen [again]?"
Then I had to remember that everything happens for a reason.
I am blessed to have so many loving family members and friends to remind me that I am deserving of something better than foolishness.
If a man claims to love me, he needs to respect me for who AND what I am.
Yes- they may be intimidated by my father and [bodyguards of] uncles. . . But they need to realize that I am a young woman who is striving to be what God has made me to be.
They need to show me how much they love and care for me- not just talk!
Actions truly speak louder than words.
I've posted these poems because I hope they will help people to realize their self-worth and the fact that no one can love you more than God can.  Lisa McClendon has a song called "Who Can Love You More" and the answer is only He can.  Instead of trying to find someone (boyfriend, etc.), build your relationship with God and just watch Him move in your life.  Keep Living, Learning, and Loving.  God Bless!   

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